How often have you spent weeks, or even months talking to that particular girl you like, then working up the courage to ask her out, just to hear those horrible words:
“Oh, you’re so sweet, but I don’t really see you in that manner.
If you hear that, it is like she has reached deep inside of your chest and ripped out your heart!
Hurts, does not it?
Here are the biggest mistakes that guys make and that you should avoid doing:
1 – They never tell the women their true intentions!
This is the most common reason why guys eventually get buddy zoned.
They like the woman; they want to go on a date with her, have fun, sleep with her, and eventually begin a relationship. But they’re so afraid of rejection that they always skirt around the problem, never clearly stating what they need and letting the girl know that they really like her romantically!
That is why it’s always best to allow the girl know that you’re interested in her romantically, and that you’d like to go on a date with her.
2 – They treat her like a princess!
If you never disagree with the woman, never express your own opinion, always feign interest in the topics she brings up, even if they don’t interest you – that the woman will notice this and won’t honor you.
If you’re constantly afraid of offending the girl or making her mad, always “walking on eggshells” so to speak – she’ll see that you are a spineless man and lose all attraction towards you.
Bad Boys don’t fear rejection, are not afraid of offending people, of living life, of judgment from others. They don’t give a rat’s behind about what anyone thinks of them and they don’t filter their ideas when they talk – they tell it like it is.
That is incredibly attractive to the vast majority of girls, and exactly the reason why most women fall for these so-called “rebels”.
3 – They always doubt themselves!
Self-doubt is one of the most unattractive qualities that a person can possess.
If you can’t make decisions, question your every move, hesitate when speaking to the woman, touching her, leading her, and other similar matters – you are not going to get anywhere!
Women don’t like guys who are wracked with insecurities and self-esteem difficulties. It’s best that you learn how to get those things handled!
4 – They bore women half to death!
This is another enormous mistake that most men make.
When talking to girls, they start asking all of the boring, and uninspired questions like “Where are you from?” , “Where did you study?”
You are there to flirt, have a fun, interesting, and exciting conversation with her and not to run an interview!
Refrain from asking the things that a thousand other guys have asked her and learn some much-needed social skills that spice up a dialog.
Don’t bore her to death and demonstrate that you’re both going to have a fun time when she accepts your invitation!
If you follow this advice and always make your goals clear, you are never going to land in the friend zone!
At worst, you will get rejected and know where you stand with her. Then you can quickly move on to another girl and stop wasting time!